COVID-19 has altered several known facts about dating. In some parts of the world women were less comfortable using online dating apps but due to the pandemic everyone has gone virtual. People are now aware of the possibilities of meeting some wonderful women through the cyber world. You can even use free chat apps like NEEO if you want to gain the trust of your intended as a friend first. Anxious to find your lady love? the following guidelines will help you get her attention sooner than you anticipated
COVID-19 has altered several known facts about dating. In some parts of the world women were less comfortable using online dating apps but due to the pandemic everyone has gone virtual. People are now aware of the possibilities of meeting some wonderful women through the cyber world. You can even use free chat apps like NEEO if you want to gain the trust of your intended as a friend first. Anxious to find your lady love? the following guidelines will help you get her attention sooner than you anticipated:
- Use a subtle pick-up line:
Women generally get a lot messages from unknown people and they probably don’t have time to go through all the messages. To get a lady’s attention, rather than using a bland, ‘hey’, or an over frank, ‘hi gorgeous’, say something like, ‘I went through your profile and liked what I saw. Would like to chat sometime’. This way you’re being direct but not going overboard and sounding desperate.
- Upload interesting pictures:
A man obsessed with his face is a real put off. You should put up pictures of yourself partaking in different activities, playing sports and cruising with friends. Put up pictures of the interesting places you’ve been to because ‘travelling’ is one subject everyone can relate to. Most ladies like men in action so show them you’re high on life!
- Avoid over explanation:
Be careful not to write too much about yourself in your intro. You don’t want her to think you’re a narcissist. It’s always safer if you do more of ‘showing’ and less of ‘telling’. If you love animals put up pictures of you with your pets, and if you’ve got a good sense of humor put up one of your favorite jokes rather than writing, ‘I’m funny’. Let the onlooker decide whether you’re joke is funny enough to laugh at.
- Use meaningful words:
Try to think from a woman’s point of view when you’re talking to her using a dating app or a free chat app. When you were looking at her profile what was it that attracted you most? Comment on what you found interesting in her profile and take interest in her life. Women love to be heard so be a good listener and let her pour her heart out.
- Take it forward:
Once you’ve spent enough time chatting, maybe a couple of weeks, you need to gather courage to ask her out. Only talk and no action won’t get your very successful results in making the girl stay. Feelings will fizzle out eventually if they are only limited to words and lack physical interaction. When she starts opening up to you and begins to share things about her private life without your asking, that’s the signal. This means you’re both in a comfortable place so you won’t suffer rejection.
- Closest to real life:
You know what she looks like in pictures but pictures can be edited easily. In a video call you’ll be able to see what she really looks like. This way you won’t get any unwanted shocks when you meet her in real life. For a smooth first date you should have an idea about what to expect.
- What makes her laugh:
Through video call you can not only see her, but you can hear her voice and observe her expressions and body language. Through messaging it is impossible to know someone’s spontaneous reaction to what you said. When you’re speaking to her live, you’ll know what really makes her smile. You can use this knowledge to your benefit when you meet her in real life.
- Be confident:
When you decide to ask her out make sure it’s not a vague attempt. Be clear about where you’d like to take her and when. Instead of saying, ‘I would like to take you out to dinner sometimes’, say, ‘My friend told me about this place where they serve excellent food. Would you like to join me this Saturday?’. This will make you seem confident and will make it easier for her to say, ‘yes’.
- Gentle reminders:
You asked her out and she said yes but there’s still time left till Saturday. Send her reminders to make sure she doesn’t become double minded about an IRL meeting. Reminders should not be in question form such as, ‘We’re confirmed for Saturday right?’, but rather something like, ‘After dinner we’re going to go grab a scoop of this amazing ice-cream from ______ (whatever the place is). It’s one of the best and since you have a sweet tooth just like me, there’s no way we’re leaving dessert out.’
Women, mostly, are emotional creatures and by using the right words you can strike the right chords. It might be a little difficult to use dating apps and free chat messengers if you’re not very good at expressing yourself in writing. Emotions, however, can be conveyed effectively without perfect use of grammar and vocabulary. You can switch to audio/video calls sooner if you’re more comfortable with those. The beginning is generally a bit tricky but once you find you’ve clicked with your lady love the right moves will come naturally.
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